Performance anxiety therapy
You've done the work. You know the material, the piece, the play. And then the moment arrives and your body does something you didn't authorize — hands unsteady, breath high and shallow, mind suddenly blank. The gap between what you can do in practice and what happens under pressure is one of the most frustrating experiences there is.
Why willpower doesn't close the gap
Performance anxiety isn't a confidence problem, and it isn't solved by wanting it more. Under pressure your nervous system makes a threat assessment faster than conscious thought, and it responds the way it learned to — often from a moment years earlier that had nothing to do with a stage.
That's why the usual advice fails. Preparing harder doesn't reach the part of you that's reacting, because that part doesn't process language the way the thinking brain does.
What we actually work with
Often there's a specific moment underneath it: a teacher's comment, a competition that went badly, a time you froze in front of people who mattered. EMDR and Flash Technique process those directly, so the old event stops firing in the present.
Brainspotting is especially suited to performance work — it was developed partly through work with athletes and performers, and it reaches the body-level activation that talking about it never quite touches.
And EFT gives you something to do in the ten minutes before you walk out. Tools you can use in the wing, the locker room, the corridor outside the exam hall.
Who I see for this
Musicians and performers dealing with audition nerves, stage fright, or a specific performance that went wrong and now lives in the body.
Athletes whose training doesn't translate to competition, or who've developed a block around a specific movement or moment.
Students facing exams, oral defenses, presentations — including graduate and professional students under sustained pressure.
Professionals whose work is public: speaking, pitching, teaching, testifying.
This might sound familiar
- You perform well alone and lose it in front of people
- Your body reacts before you've consciously registered any fear
- One bad experience has colored everything since
- You've started avoiding the situations that matter to you
- The anxiety arrives days or weeks before the event, not just on the day
Preparation isn't the missing piece.
Book a free 15-minute consultation and let's find what is.